Hi. I’m Kate, I write grim & grounded, a space for creatives trying to stay medium-sane under capitalism. I have always gone by Lily Hammer on the internet; it’s been my handle from the wee-early days of online gaming, so it’s stuck now. Maybe it will be my pen name one day, although everyone confuses it with the show, which is based on a place, yet they never seem to know it exists.

For the last five years, I have been working on a lengthy grimdark fantasy series that deals with oppressive governments, religious persecution, and bodily autonomy, following a group of morally grey people on their way to becoming found family. It brings me the most joy in life because I work in corporate America during the day. I’m working towards being traditionally published. I talk about all of this on this platform.

What to expect on grim & grounded.

  • The Grim: anything writing-related, including progress on my book, topics related to its themes, and things that have helped me stay motivated and make progress.

  • The Grounded: navigating the ups and downs of existing under a system that works against creativity, including ways I stay medium-sane with a corporate day job and ways I resist grind culture.

  • The Garden: my life as a chaotic gardener working towards sustaining at least myself with fresh herbs, vegetables, and fruit. I’m hoping to get to a point where I can donate fresh food when possible.

  • Writing Assistant Beans and his brother, Copy Editor Pants. Not their government names because they’re in hiding, but they help me write every morning.

Why become a paid subscriber?

As of 2025, the majority of my Substack is free with select pieces that I consider a bit more personal and/or “premium” behind a paywall, as well as much older Archival content. This may change as my Substack evolves.

It’s $5 a month, so upgrading to paid is just a simple way to show that you value my writing and is a great way to keep me and Writing Assistants, Beans & Pants, motivated to show up for you.

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a grimdark writer trying to stay grounded. i talk about writing, growing food, surviving as a creative under capitalism, and ways to stay medium-insane.